Guess it's how you see it, b/c to me...your W is applying exactly what you should be doing. Only exception is she initiated TM's.

Look back over the conversation again. She kept her sentences very short and she was the one to end the conversation first, every time.

To me it appears as though you are pushing, but to you I'm sure it seems as if you're being a good friend. JMHO.

I know it's frustrating for you. Sometimes you may feel that everything you do or say is wrong. Keep learning what works....that's the important part.

((hugs))

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!