I am suggesting that ripping apart someone because of the physical flaws you perceive them to have is ridiculous. What you say and how you act projects into the universe.

It isn't about thin or fat necessarily...

it is about the negativity you put out there...
trying to make yourself feel better because of the flaws of another person isn't moving on

My ex left me for a baby...
when it still bothered me, you bet I called her a baby and a drug addict....both true statements...both true observations but it sure showed I was insecure

surviving means reaching a point where the OP is not a part of your life
not your concern

don't even register a comment

it shows their power over you when you still feel the need to bash them in order to feel good

justify it however you want but you are trying to build yourself up by making others feel small

and
blaming the OP for having an affair is ludacris
they owed you no loyalty
that was your partners job


I am with a wonderful amazing man
and
Salma Hyek could walk into our house, naked and begging for sex and he wouldn't pause and even think about it (well he might think about it grin) but the point it...she couldn't MAKe him cheat...she couldn't steal him from me because he doesn't belong to me...he CHOOSES to be with me just like I choose to be with him

life is about choices

choose to continue to compare yourself to other people and you will choose how to feel

choose to continue to project negativity about others into the universe in order to feel better about yourself and rest assured that that will come back to you

choose instead to project understand or at least compassion instead...how sad that those women thought so little about themselves as to have to try to prove their attractiveness by breaking apart a marrage

aren't you glad you don't have to do that in order to think you are attractive?

commenting negatively on people's looks is low class and shows you haven't developed a strong enough self-esteem to feel good about yourself without bringing other people down