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In the middle of the hug she said, "I think we should tell the kids tonight".


Why did you allow this to happen? B/c that was what your WAW wanted?

She is not going to do what's best for the children b/c of her frame of mind. The only person they had to protect them was their father. Now what?

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!