On Figurative Ledge - Talk Me Down?

[Denver_2010]

FOBD - Played poker with some of my best friends last night. I think that they asked me one time how it was going with W. I told them that we were still 'married' on Facebook, so that was a good sign. I kind of laughed at my response and then told them that I was really just too emotionally exhausted from situation to talk about it. None of them have ever gone through this, so they don't get it. I'm pretty sure that they, and my family, are beginning to wonder why I don't move on.

I'm glad that you understand where i am coming from on the 'going dark' issue that I am having a problem with. Sandi let me have it above for calling my W the other night, which I understand. But my W and I were pretty damn dark for the first 3 weeks that she and I were physically separated. And my W, like yours, seems to have softened a bit too. Then there is the conversation that I had with FIL where he tells me that she is telling her M that she doesn't think that I love her or that I care about M bc I am not doing anything proactive. This is my internal struggle as far as strategy moving forward. I feel like I have Josh McDaniels coaching my DB team here... no clear direction or organization!

I'm going to re-read the relevant portions of DR tonight and make my second appt with my real DB Coach tomorrow.

BITS!
Denver