tjack, thanks for your comments and thoughts.

As for the vacumn sitch, I just have to let it go. If she had used money that kept us from making house payment, then I would have to say something. It is on payments. Payments for a vacumn? Does that sound crazy, or is it just me?

As for now, I assume she still wants a D, and doesn't need me. So how can I say anything without it hurting us?

What hurts the most is that she is doing things like this without me being involved in any way. She has no interest in what I think. She is moving on without me.


H-40 W-38
Together-20
Married-12
boy-7 girl-3
bomb-9/17/10
No papers
live together
No affair