BIG NEWS IN MY SITCH - HUGE

[AntoniaB]

I think the best thing you can do is listen and that's about it for now. Listen to your ex, but listen to yourself. If you are in a position where you want to consider reconciliation, then you can agree to set up a way to communicate with boundaries. Make the boundaries clear. Set ground rules. I'm looking at your sitch and this is a long time from your divorce. Do you want a relationship with this man at this point? You are likely to both be very different people at this point.

I think above all avoid the knee jerk reaction that might be very understandable, take a breath, and just consider your options paying close attention to what is best for YOU.