SA, Even though he's filed for a divorce, he's still curious about what you are doing w/your life and who is sharing your life w/you. They don't want you, but they don't want anyone else to have or be part of your life either.
They all ask questions at some point and it's very strange that they do....but in their minds...we are to stay put...where they left us when they walked out the door. I know it sounds crazy, but that's how their little minds work.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.