These are the exact same concerns that drove me for a long time... If i act like important accepting the separation she might find it easier to walk away but what i have decided is that she has to be able to deal with the reality of life without me or it will remain an idealized fantasy in her mind. Plus if we are negative or unhappy towards them that really doesn't give them any reason to want to come back.
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