PEI, I've read most of your sitch, and it sounds very similar to mine. But I guess they all are, that's why we are here.
He's WAH, but I know the childhood issues are there for MLC. He's also known for not finishing projects, even those having to do with his business, and I truly think he is depressed and has been for quite awhile.
I've been doing the reading from PEI and Cadet. I'm wondering if I need to start over as far as goals, etc. I'm feeling quite abandoned right now, with my house not done and H not wanting to contribute financially. Some days I let the ow really affect my self esteem. And the last hour I've been hosting a pity party for myself.
Now I'm out the door with the lab to romp in the snow and wonder at God's creations. I've got to remember that my kids and I are also His creations, and He will see us through.
Thanks to everyone. I have a lot questions to post.