Running through the convo and I realized that the wasting time comment and bringing up that she doesn't want to see me were bad ideas.
Wasting time is too adversarial a wording and me mentioning that she doesn't want to see me was useless b/c we weren't having a R talk.
I should have just asked "and what if I get home while you're at the house?". Would have been less adversarial and left the decision up to her without me being too soft.
