Scylla, thanks for the offer. Our wonderful healthcare system in Canada has not afforded us a solution to my W's depression. She has gone through a myriad of tests over many years to disprove this or that. She has not been offered medication to my knowledge (at least what she tells me)and some doctors are averse to giving meds for that sort of thing anyway.
I am convinced that part of her genetic makeup makes her prone to depression. I just have to look at how her mother is, and her brother also to put two and two together. However, its not up to me and to make matters worse we've been without a family doctor for three years.
We are still on course for this separation thing although i have to admit i have been avoiding thinking of it and doing other things. I really should look at my finances and get everything squared away. She wants to use the same lawyer for the legal separation but i might go to another lawyer for advice just the same. She's gone off on her own a few times this weekend, with the girls and such, and it is clear she didn't want me along. Her attitude towards me is borderline childish lately and i don't care for it. I don't usually show my temper but as a 180 i may have to to let her know im a person with feelings and the father of our children.
