Welcome to the MLC Board. I've been here almost a year, and it has been the saving grace of my life.
Cadet will be along shortly to give you pointers and some things to read. Read them! They help explain away a lot of your questions. Assign them to a folder where you can find them and re-read them often.
MLC is a succession of stages, and it sounds as if your H is just getting geared up. Perhaps triggered by the money issues. OW are more commonly a Band-aid to a gunshot wound, although it is not how it makes you feel.
You'll get much wise advice. Just hang in there, as the Board is pretty quite on weekends. Tomorrow at the latest you should start getting some advice and wisdom.
Come here to vent, that's part of what we are here for. Along with the support, be ready for the constructive criticisms, as well. Here, they are called 2 x 4's. This will be a very positive experience in your life. Promise.
ME: 54 Him: 51 M: 20 years T: 21 years OW/New wife: 36 Sons & Daughters: 7 (ages 24-36) Bomb: March 4, 2010 He Filed: April 28, 2010 I Contested: May 1, 2010 Standing Down: 11/24/10 Divorced : 05/04/2011
