Pei,

You sound as if you are doing fantastic. It's such a relief when you finally get over that HUGE lump of pain and can begin to breathe a little easier.

I am jealous that you even get to have a conversation with STBXH. Mine avoids direct personal contact. Either that or OW won't let him have direct personal contact. We'll see when we get to the L's office.

Happy Girl's Night out, forever and always!


ME: 54
Him: 51
M: 20 years T: 21 years
OW/New wife: 36
Sons & Daughters: 7 (ages 24-36)
Bomb: March 4, 2010
He Filed: April 28, 2010
I Contested: May 1, 2010
Standing Down: 11/24/10
Divorced : 05/04/2011