My h is very good at shutting off feelings. He was adapted at 2 yrs old and he convinced himself that his adoptive mother was his real mother. He is very good at shutting off any negative feelings thats why i feel he will never look back at what we had as a family now that he has ow. I just dont know what i did to deserve this, it really hurts.We had such a great family.
im afraid if my h brings my son around the ow again im going to have a breakdown. i was going to text h and say please keep our son away from ow or im going to have a nervous breakdown". I can handle h hurting me but when he hurts my son i cant handle it. im afraid hes going to bring son around ow this weekend.
It's what he's doing now. He is most likely going to do it, just expect it and plan your self-control.
Don't text this to your H, or show this to your son. You son is ok with it.
It's just time to take care of yourself. Go do something else. How about a movie--go to a movie--it has worked for me in changing my mindset. Force yourself to change your mind.
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001
I text h and told him "pls dont bring son around ow or i'm going to have a breakdown". he called son right after that, and h sounded upbeat and happy that im suffering. is that how crazy they think. I think WAS like when we are not happy with our life.How do you think i should handle my son being around the ow? do u think there is any legal way i can stop this? I went to a spiritual meeting tonight and it was good. I feel better when im around spiritual people instead of alone.
my son came home from h house. i didnt question him if ow was there. its probably better for son and i if i don't ask. i cant control it. son was in a good mood.
I meant i cant control if h chooses to bring my son around ow, so i have to pray and let it go or it will just hurt son and I. I have to "accept the things i cannot change" which i find very difficult.
