The hardest thing I've ever done.

[Royloveshiswife]

I have to tell you, I go thru those same emotions. Everyday. But as I've said, you can't fight them. Look at them. realize why you feel this way. Don't just say they did this to me. really look. Really get to know you. Your spouse used to really love most parts of you. They probably still love a lot of those parts. If they are anything like mine, they just dislike other parts of you too much. And chances are, you don't much like those parts either. As I've read it, "You can't change them, Just you. Do it for you. Not for them." No matter what happens, you need to like you. And the first step is to know Why you feel the way you do. And deal with those things. Good luck with it. I'm still working on it.