Yea Bolt, I am there. Struggling to give it all to him though. Can't find complete faith.

Pickle's quote is good, and I have been doing that also. I don't know how or what to approach my wife with, so I am leaving it up to him to show me, and show her what to do.

His pace is slow, and I am confused if things that come to me on what to do are my feelings or his. I have asked him to be more blunt with me.

H-40 W-38
Together-20
Married-12
boy-7 girl-3
bomb-9/17/10
No papers
live together
No affair