Denver

Yes, I was very clear on Bomb day about not wanting D. I am sure she knows I want to work on marriage, and I thought that was what we were going to do after she agreed I get a chance, but that is not happening.

Like I have said, I realize it is actually a chance to get a chance to work on the marriage. That was said on day 1. 2 months later I got the, " I want a divorce".

I just got back from a train show with my son. While I was gone I see my wife has bought a $2500.00 vacumn from a guy who came and displayed it at our house. Oh My God! This woman is "sick". Shopping constantly, How can I say something?

leader12, I guess we got our answer about private messages.

I have been going to MC ever since day 1 by myself. You would also think that she would see this as me trying to fix marriage. I am about ready to quit going, I am not really getting anything from it anymore. Without her wanting to try, I see no point.


H-40 W-38
Together-20
Married-12
boy-7 girl-3
bomb-9/17/10
No papers
live together
No affair