ML,

Welcome to the MLC board. You'll find a lot of support here. Cadet will be along shortly to list the resources and reading list for you. Read, post, and don't be afraid to ask questions.

Do you know what your W's childhood was like? Do you know what the trigger for the crisis was? It is usually a traumatic event that happened 12 to 36 months before the crisis started.

I can tell you that when in full crisis mode, morals usually make an exit.

Whether she's MLC or a WAW this journey is not easy or short. Patience and time will be your best friends as it will take a lot of both.

The weekends can be a bit slow on the boards because folks are out GALing, etc. Don't let that discourage you. Posting picks back up during the week.

Hang in there.