GAG - very interesting information...I like when you post your recap of your sessions with Jody, she is able to look at the situation from the outside and that combined with her training and experience can certainly enlighten you and all of us on many points that we struggle with in our situations. I read and re-read it with interest....she is making lots of sense.

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until it feels like more work to reconnect with XH than to find a new love that I can know in my heart is "not settling", there will be no incentive for me to get out there and really look for someone


This is probably why I stand, because I know that we were right for each other, happy for many years.....as you said it's not easy to find someone that is compatible on so many levels and will withstand the test of time....some people will never find that....I'm doubting that I would ever find that kind of relationship I had with H again.

M53 H54 D17
M33Y T38Y
Bomb OW 09/09
OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10
WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10
Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO