Deju vu, but new to the online forum...round 2

[mj144]

OK, so W brought home from work the family picture she kept on her desk the week before last. Now she has taken down a picture of the 2 of us from her nightstand and a gift that I gave her a couple years ago for Mother's Day that was a statue of a family of 4 in a circle hugging that was carved out of stone made in Africa. I saw them all sitting on the stairs to be sent down to the basement. While it doesn't necessarily come as a surprise, it hurts like crazy. Especially the statue. Now there still are pictures of us and me all over the house and still are some in the bedroom, including pics from our wedding, but I was wondering if the removal of these things signify any deep meaning as to her truly being done? The thought of just tossing the things down in the basement just makes it feel so insignificant.