The tears to me are a sign of her still being attached. While I think that she as well as my W and other's S here have made their 'decision', the tears and emotion they show is their heart speaking. Their mind tells them they are done, but in all reality, I believe that my W, maybe yours and all of the others' S are trying to validate w/in themselves the decision they made with their words and actions. In all of our sitches, there was no abuse of any kind or extreme circumstances where the decision is made out of real necessity and/or safety. That is why Dbing can be so successful since there is a shed of doubt in all our S decisions. We all just need to be patient and consistent with our actions to increase that level of doubt until we can kick the f'ing wall down and win back their hearts.
M42 W38 D5D7 M8 Living as 'roomates' since 9-12-10 Moved out 1-7-11 FIL threatened to kill me 1-20-11
