Well, haven't posted in a while, just plugging along on the DB path. Things have been amicable although still no contact aside from kids things, etc. The last couple of ice times for our kids, STBXH has been sitting and chatting with young girl who I believe is a live in Nanny for one of the boys on the hockey team. Likely someone who he is interested in, I don't know but nothing I can do about that so I will put it out of my mind. He is and has always been a big flirt so nothing new there anyway.
I have been getting back in with the usual crowd at hockey and some of the moms have commented that everything is back to normal now that I'm back where I belong. That certainly felt good to hear and it sure felt good to be back in the stands cheering instead of out on my own. STBXH has been sitting and chatting with a younger girl at the last few ice times (I think she is a live in nanny for one of the kids on the team). Maybe he's interested in her, maybe not, not something I can control so it just is what it is and he has always been a big flirt.
I'll be meeting up with the group at the out of town hockey tournament next weekend on my way back from meetings and attending an NHL game with everyon on Sunday night. Anyone with advice on how to act to make the most of my DB efforts during this time, please chime in.
Me: 41 STBXH: 36 D: 11 S: 9 BOMB 12/2009 SEPARATED 5/2010 D SERVED BY ME 9/2010 FINAL D When I'm ready