Where people get mixed up is when they read the word Mid. People are never too young to go through a Life Crisis. I have read that we go through life transitions about every 7 - 10 years. A life crisis occurs when one of these transitions goes way off the tracks.
I believe that it's the Mid Life Crisis that gets the most attention because it seems to be the one that is the most notable.
Your H definitely sounds as if he's going through a crisis and you're along for the ride. The advice here would be the same. Detach, set boundaries for you that can be enforced, go as dark as you can.
Nicole, sorry to hi-jack your thread.
Sarahani if you have a thread here, sorry I missed it. If you don't, start one, read and ask questions. What your H is going through is really no different than the crisis that the ones that are older are going through and the same advice will apply.
