Nicole as I read your sitch I could have swore it was me writing it. My husband and I are both 32 and I never thought MLC can happen in your 30's. We have 2 small children so it really stinks for them but I've been going back and forth on thinking if this is worth it because the energy I am putting into this is wearing me down. I truly love him that is the only thing I know for sure right now. My H's OW is a real b**** though the times that he would try to make our M work she would pursue him so much that 1 bad step and he would go back to her. Our R issues started back in August when I found out about OW and he went back and forth to his moms and home but after a while I just said I can't do this no more and moved into my parents house so he had no coice but to stay there. He now says it's "done" between us but calls me almost everyday to talk to the kids and sneaks in a "where are you" all the time. I'm so confused I wish this was just a simple fix.
Me:32 H:32 M:9 T:15 D:4 S:2 OW/PA: JANUARY 10 ILYBINILWY AUGUST 10 Goes and Comes July/September Moves out September Sep. since Sept.
