Still thinking of moving this thread... not been able to find the time!
I could tell this evening when she came in she wanted to talk the R. She finally said so. I said I had to talk to the therapist again first. (This is true, I do not want to say anything that will compromise her theraputic process.)
If anyone can provide ideas on how to manage the R talk; what to say, what not to, and where not to go, I'd appreciate it!