WAW tearing up our family

[ironMan]

There was no avoiding that discussion, Denver. I said, I agreed that nesting was the best plan but we would need to get an apartment as well. She then resisted and said she would just leave then. She said she didn't want me spying on her and she didn't intend to stay home the nights she wasn't at home with baby. She seemed shocked and angry that I agreed with her plan mostly ... before agreeing again that the nesting plan would be best for the baby.

Now, its up to her to go find an apartment etc. Delaying this convo was just making her mad so I had to let her know I was ready to have it.

Yes, that was Laurie's advice. Wife is insisting on separation .... and this was the least separate we could get. The smaller the step the better. She will have to have regular contact with me and we will be splitting time 50/50 with the sweet little baby.

W really is a selfish person right now. But I know she's hurting. I fear she probably won't figure out that this is a bad plan before there's no going back. But, I'm not giving up. Continue to be a friend and DB my ass off. I can't control what she does. I intend to keep GAL, hang with friend, and do what I want with my new found free time.

BITS!