I think that basing the value of someone on their outside appearance makes YOU look like an ass.
I am a chubby woman with gray hairs and wrinkles.
If you saw me on the street, in passing, you wouldn't think anything of me...or you might snicker (as I have had people do) because I am not made up and I am wearing clothes I found on my floor and I probably have baby food or cookies smeared on my shirt.
I have had several thin and fit, beautiful women dismiss me because I am "not in their league."
It shows ignorance
if you bothered to look underneath the wrinkles you would see quick laughter and a giving and generous nature... underneath the gray hair is a brilliant mind, able to discuss a myriad of topics intelligently and with great depth behind the chubby you would find warmth and a love of all people I am fiercely loyal and have friendships that have lasted my whole life
you don't know my story you don't know my life
all you know is what I look like
you are right most cheaters trade down, for whatever reason
but OT is right
when you bash on someone because of their looks it makes you LOOK like an arrogant a$$
If you need to make others small so you feel big there is something lacking in YOU, not them
