Sounds like you handled well to me. I completely understand how difficult is to keep communication to things like "hope you are doing well" rather than "I miss you more every day" or "please give me another chance!". Trust me. I understand this very well What Next. You are not alone.
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce