I really dislike this moderation stuff. I understand the need for it but us newbies are in the desperate phase and having to wait for posts and responses makes it harder.
We don't really like it much either, but it's necessary at this time. I apologize for the stress it causes you. We've added a moderator to help expedite things, and he is a great DBer as well. We hope that we will be able to eliminate this need in the near future.