"I would prefer we just do it over the phone, but if you would prefer to do it in person, you are welcome to pay me a visit."
"No sorry that time doesn't work for me, I have plans. How about ____________ ?"
All the rest you are over-analyzing her motives. You are too focused on HER and what she is thinking and feeling.
She is in a fog and there is nothing logical about her. Keep looking inwards at yourself.
Sorry for the short answers, limited time just now. I'll check back in again soon.
Spellfire aka Mike
"Women do not like controlling men. They respect and are attracted to men who control themselves. They ultimately are repelled by men who allow themselves to be controlled." -S&A