He assumes the worst, acts extraordinarily cold, and tells you he wants you to move on. The easiest thing for the spouse who wants out is for you to (1) be a jerk (thus his assumption that everything you say is you being on the attack) or (2) to leave him alone (thus his discouraging tone and request that you move on). Who knows what he's really feeling - maybe this is just his way of protecting himself. Seems to me, though, that your best chance at reconciliation is still to avoid talking about difficult topics and be as upbeat and pleasant to be around as possible. Yes, he wants a divorce now, but it's not over yet, and you already know (from wedding day to January 11th) that his feelings can change, so don't lose hope yet.
