Hi Mila! Yes, let your in-laws stay for the sake of fil. That would be the right thing to do, IMHO. But, make sure that they know that there might be an issue if OW enters your home. They may have received her, but you have no intention of entertaining her for their sake. I doubt, though, that the OW would dare do that??? Is she daring enough to come to your home and face you? Some OW are like that, but this one doesn't seem that way.
Sounds like you're having fun with male friends. I'm enjoying my visit with my niece. Her H died in Iraq, so she has a lot to talk about, but she does give me the option to talk about my issues too. She's so sweet.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim