i want a normal healthy relationship/marriage again. at least i was fooled into thinking it was normal. i tried to talk to him. i tried to get him to talk to the priest with me. as far as the friend coming with me. i thought that is what you are suppose to do when you fear being around someone who may hit you again. the dv websites give advice to get out safely. i thought i did that. what does this forum think is ok to do?