Punchy,
Just wanted to say Hi, I'm new at this so take what I say it for what its worth, but I would avoid R talk for now and agree with everyone that it is best to wait for her to bring it up.

My W still works with om, she comes home every day on time and things seem to be settling down. She I believe is still in somewhat of a fog/confusion state.

I know the waiting is hard, if it makes u feel better I'm on
week 20. Patience, Time, Patience, Time, be her friend......

Hang in there
Cold