Fran,

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He told me I had been fabulous! Fabulous at what? Well because I left him to it basically. My only thought is that he may well come out of the tunnel at some point and be grateful. Meantime I have a lodger who pays all my bills and babysits now and again. Better than nowt.





You sound very detatched and H appreciates the lack of pressure. Great job! I think if you stick with it long enough, you will reap the benefit.

I am going to read the book, "Tough Love" by Dr. Dobson. Have you heard of it. I heard it was good. nik