It's interesting that she said that item about compartmentalizing. This is where the WAS gets into trouble. They compartmentalize their disappointments about the M or R and not tell their spouse. This leads to them mindreading, believing that the LBS should just "know" what they're thinking. This is not what a marriage is all about.
I'd bring that up to the C. If your W thinks that compartmentalizing is a good thing, she's wrong. Left unchecked, they tend to grow and fester on their own in the back of their mind. It's also what leads to A's. They compartmentalize so much that their life with their spouse is different than their life with another person and can blur the lines between the two.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
