WAW tearing up our family

[ironMan]

Well, I have taken some time to reflect .... and talked to DB coach Laurie.

Even though I would be most comfortable if she left the house ... I believe that us "nesting" and spending our time with the baby at the house ... and the other time at an apartment will be the smallest step towards divorce and will make it easier for her to spend more time around me if she so chooses. So, I told her I was ready to talk about the separation when she was. She asked to have the conversation tonight after the baby goes to bed.

Its very sad to be here ..... but it is ok. I'm not looking forward to the discussion. I plan to be a good active listener, then firmly and gently tell her what I need in the situation, but make sure that she will shoulder the work here. I'm not finding the apartment or working out the details.