I echo habit. I'm not calling anyone out for their efforts. I think it's great. I guess I wish more guys would do this w/o a bomb being dropped. I mean almost to a man, every guys here reaction seems to be the same.
The embarassed comment is not directed at you, or your efforts, or your past. More at society as a whole and the role of men/women. Just as when I equally embarrassed when I hear stories of women trading sexual favors for trips, clothes, jewelry, or household chores.
I think it is sad that a D has to be mentioned to get men to be more involved. Obviously every situation is different.
I am truly sorry if I offended you. That wasn't my intent. I just hope for all these guys here those changes will take hold and you never have to come here again.
I'll now slink away.
Patience is bitter, but its fruit is sweet. --Jean Jacques Rousseau.
