As a WAH once, from my experience and my point of view, when I walked away I did not initiate any contact at all.
From my point of view MLC can be summed up simply with confusion. It affects them and infects you. I see a spouse who keeps in contact beyond the basic kids or money as being conflicted in what they want.
And while it does sukc for you, it also provides opportunities.
As a new poster, there is going to be a delay in the time between when you write a post and when it actually gets posted here. That's just the way it is right now, so please bear with it. And while I am normally not on during the weekends I'll be checking to keep the posts up and current.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK