No,No,No. Sorry, you misunderstood me.

I was just replying to Harrier's post. Believe me, I am the same as you. I am doing all these things also.

What we mean by being embarrassed is that we were not doing these chores in the first place. I know I feel ashamed that I didn't help my wife more, and after you do this stuff you start to realize why she seemed to not have time for us.

I am sorry for the misunderstanding.

H-40 W-38
Together-20
Married-12
boy-7 girl-3
bomb-9/17/10
No papers
live together
No affair