You are supposed to be on your way to TT with XH!!
Your support and friendship means so much to me, you guys have me all crying and I wish we could all hug in person!!!
Thank you for being here.....
I have found wonderful friends on this board.
I am going to go tomorrow prepared with tissues and a bottle of water. I am going to try really hard to be a big girl.
I hope H is finding it as difficult as I am this evening and realizes that this is the end of something precious and that this divorce is senseless given how far we have come and the love we apparently still have for each other and our son. I would like to speak with him and have him be humble and brutally honest.
I have already said this....I am soooo sad and scared. I will post tomorrow as to how it went....
Sanderika
ME48/H48MLC T 33y M 28y S16 OW 8/7/05 Bomb 8/16/05 Sep 9/05 H f'd D 10/3/08 D pp'd 1/20/09,7/24/09,12/4/09 D dismissed 2/5/10 H served me D papers again 9/4/10 D dismissed 9/26/11
Look, there is a reason that we're all undergoing this together: because all of us can handle it. It's our spouses who couldn't. Eric recommended to me the book The Journey from Abandonment to Healing. It is excellent. I am there and all of you are there on every page. And everything you're going through is just proof that you are a loving person who deserves a good life. You will find that again. I know it.
(((HUGS AND STRENGTH IN NUMBERS)))
M45 Bomb 6/09; EA 6/10; Divorced 1/11 Proud single mom of 7 little feline girls and one little feline boy "Fall down 53 times. Get up 54." -- Zen saying
there is a reason that we're all undergoing this together: because all of us can handle it. It's our spouses who couldn't.
I agree with this! ^^^^^^^^ Jody and I talked about this a bit this morning. There are very few people who have inner strength to do what we have been doing.
Thinking of all you ladies, dont know where time flies, work is manic atm and I have a new boss, so not popping in as much as I'd like.. good to see your not swimming around in a flood Cas! and Sanderika my heart, thoughts and prayers are with you as it gets near D day (). GAG hope your ok, a quick read of here looks promising and I'll try and catch up with some reading posts over the weekend..
Tons of love to you all
Rabbit
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Once lost but now found and happily married again!
How are you both? Cas, glad to hear that the floods are not affecting your area. The flooding sounds awful in the news reports. Hope you continue to be safe. Rabbit, you sound like a busy bunny at the moment. Work can be therapy at times. Have you had any more snow? We are having a VERY snowy winter here.
