You are embarrassed for me?

Well I understand and appreciate most of you users advice. Thank you. I am not trying to make her a couch potato, I am just showing I do care about our home and want it to be presentable all the time. Never know when someone could swing by. We both do not want a sloppy home.

Please do not dog me out for trying. I am making efforts and working through stages of evolving and resolution. If you cannot be positive and give advice with being a jacka$$ then step!


Me - 39 yrs old
Wife - 39 yrs old
Married - 18 years
Together - almost 21 year
Kids - son age 13/ daughter age 10
Bomb Dropped in May 2010
Seperating - June 2011, after school lets out