Harrier, I am embarrassed also. I am not sure why we do this.

It is funny all the stuff I did to get her in the first place, and after the thrill of the chase is gone, we slack off.

I also think unconciously I was doing what I saw when I was raised. My mom was a housewife and I always saw her taking care of all this stuff. Maybe it was just put into my mind that the woman takes care of things like this.

I did not go into my marriage thinking this though. I always thought that I would do my share of the house work, but I didn't. Maybe I just got used to her taking care of everything and got lazy.


H-40 W-38
Together-20
Married-12
boy-7 girl-3
bomb-9/17/10
No papers
live together
No affair