Harrier, I am embarrassed also. I am not sure why we do this.
It is funny all the stuff I did to get her in the first place, and after the thrill of the chase is gone, we slack off.
I also think unconciously I was doing what I saw when I was raised. My mom was a housewife and I always saw her taking care of all this stuff. Maybe it was just put into my mind that the woman takes care of things like this.
I did not go into my marriage thinking this though. I always thought that I would do my share of the house work, but I didn't. Maybe I just got used to her taking care of everything and got lazy.
H-40 W-38 Together-20 Married-12 boy-7 girl-3 bomb-9/17/10 No papers live together No affair