Hey Maria, it could be a few years before you are able to remember your Dad and not feel that awful grief at his loss. I know H is ok now, but it took 3-4 years. Everyone is different. Have you, or can you speak to a bereavement counsellor at all? I'm sorry about your Mum, its going to be such a hard time for her. Having her grandchildren nearby might help her eventually. Is your son still popping down to see her?

Wow, so maybe that explains alot of H's previous reluctance in the bedroom department??

Glad you are 'ok', love Al xxx


Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs
IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08
Reconciled 05/09 now married!
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