Thanks Bolt. In what way did you push things too fast? For me its the wanting to have the R discussion. We haven't talked about our R since I confronted her about the OM about 6 weeks ago. Everyday I wrestle with wanting to bring up the discussion to find out where she is at with me and the OM.
Its a big struggle to hold back and not push on the R discussion. Instead of focusing on the R discussion I need to focus on keeping a positive frame of mind etc and not expect much in return until my wife sorts out exactly what it is she wants to do.
