18 Years of Marriage - Leaving in June

[ScaredinCanada]

That's my additude as well.

My thought process is "If I don't do this, then W will have too." Not saying every single thing that applies, but with mindset along I'm simply being more thoughtful.

Also at first I was immediately looking for approval for what I was doing. Not anymore, it just needs to be done - no need for her to thank me - it's something that we are equally responsible for.