One thing I was wondering. How do the rest of you deal with holidays and special occasions? It's her birthday tomorrow and I'm unsure as to what to do for it. I took her S13 out yesterday to buy his present to her and I have my own present to give. The son would also like to get her flowers and I'm OK with that. I'm just uncertain if I should leave it at that. Tomorrows one of my moving days and the son won't actually be around so I doubt she'll be up for any celebration and frankly I don't hink I have it in me to do it alone. She's going out with some mutual friends in the evening tomorrow, maybe I should just leave it at that?