Originally Posted By: Scared2Def
Tonight I am going to go out with some friends, it will be my first night out since she told me she is leaving in June. I am not going to get drunk, maybe a few biers and just enjoy shooting pool.

She says she does not mind me going out, she really never has, it is when I treat her bad verbally and be controlling that she hates me.

I just hope me going out with friends is NOT a huge step backwards or something like that. Any advice?


Me - 39 yrs old
Wife - 39 yrs old
Married - 18 years
Together - almost 21 year
Kids - son age 13/ daughter age 10
Bomb Dropped in May 2010
Seperating - June 2011, after school lets out