I realize my posts have been lengthy and will try to keep my words concise from now on.
W is chirpy last two days and its annoying. She showed me a copy of 'Divorce for Dummies' and wants me to read it. I will with an open mind. She seems to be looking for a legal separation still and it seems a 'done deal'.
She's also been looking at her finances and looking at houses online and she's pretty matter of fact about it. I've been asked to get a statement of my pension. That shocked me a bit. She's no dummy. I have to go through my own finances this weeked and make lists, look into getting a separate bank account.
I told my sister about whats going on. I havent told my parents yet. My sis is single living in her own house in town and offered me a free room to stay. Very gracious and might be a lifesaver. You can count on family.
I'm catching up on sleep and not moping around at work. I went to the gym the other night and worked too hard, and im still sore, but i plan to go hard at it and the goal is to get there every night or other night. Excercise feels good once you harden up.
