Last night things went well.

I came home and my wife had to go out and pick up my son. I was at home with my Daughter and used that opportunity to clean up the house. I folded a load of laundry, washed a load. Cleaned up the dishes and emptied the dish washer and also wiped down the counters. Also cleaned off the dining room table and cleaned out the kitchen junk drawer. Organized the coat rack and shoes in the main hallway. Then I started dinner and it was timed perfect, about 5 minutes before they got home I had finished cooking. Kids took showers and went to bed. The night ended up goign well, sat on couch put a movie in while wife chatted with friends on line. She actually let me into her facebook world a bit and we chatted off and on in between her typing and stuff. I ended up going to bed before her but it was decent.

Nothing was really said this morning and I will just continue to do things like this from now on. I actually felt alot better mentally and physically after working around the house.


Me - 39 yrs old
Wife - 39 yrs old
Married - 18 years
Together - almost 21 year
Kids - son age 13/ daughter age 10
Bomb Dropped in May 2010
Seperating - June 2011, after school lets out